Books-
Come as You Are- Emily Nagoski
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Mating in Captivity- Esther Perel
Just Sex? The cultural scaffolding of rape- Nicola Gavey
Men Explain Things to Me and other essays- Rebecca Solnit
The Will to Change, Men, Masculinity and Love- bell hooks
Not That Bad, Dispatches from Rape Culture - Roxanne Gay
Female Chauvinist Pigs- Ariel Levy
Revolting Prostitutes- Juno Mac and Molly Smith
Delusions of Gender & Testosterone Rex- Cordelia Fine
The Macho Paradox- Jackson Katz
The Body Keeps the Score- Bessel van der Kolk
Your Silence Will Not Protect You - Audre Lourde
Pornland, How Porn has Hijacked our Sexuality - Gail Dines
Sites-
Oh Joy Sex Toy- Erika Moen- https://www.ohjoysextoy.com
The Dirty Normal- Emily Nagoski- https://www.thedirtynormal.com
The Wheel of Consent- Betty Martin- https://bettymartin.org/videos/
OMGYes- https://start.omgyes.com
Disability after Dark- Andrew Girza- http://www.andrewgurza.com/homepage
Sex is a Social Skill- Dawn Serra- https://www.dawnserra.com
Podcasts-
Where Should We Begin- Esther Perel
https://www.estherperel.com/podcast
‘No’ - The Heart- Kaitlin Prest
https://www.theheartradio.org/no-season/advance
Articles / Essays/ stories-
The Consent Castle
https://everydayfeminism.com/2016/07/metaphor-for-consent/
White women drive me crazy- Aisha Mirza https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/aishamirza/until-white-women-ruined-it
Cat Person- Kristen Roupenian
https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017/12/11/cat-person
The Female Price of Male Pleasure- Lili Loofbourow
https://theweek.com/articles/749978/female-price-male-pleasure
Videos / talks-
Le Clitoris
The Problem with Wokeness- Ayishat Akanbi
https://www.doubledown.news/watch/2018/30/oct/the-problem-with-wokeness-ayishat-akanbi
Beyond the Cliff- Laura van Dernoot Lipsky
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uOzDGrcvmus
F**k Yes- Consent is Sexy